Match Story | How mentee Aria and her mum welcomed not one, but two mentors into their lives that changed their world for the better.
When Aria was 10 and started with BBBS, they were looking for a male role model for Aria as her dad was not in the picture. Her mum felt a ‘Big’ mentor would be helpful – a trusted friend and support person to stand by her side as she navigates life. Little did they know Aria would be matched with her big sister ‘Bernie’ Bernadette and later big brother Ben, for 5 years of friendship and mentoring!
Bernie and Ben are one of Big Brother’s Big Sister’s couple matches. They both joined BBBS hoping to give back and they loved the idea of being a ‘big sister’ and ‘big brother’ to support a young person. With both of them there to mentor Aria, she would have extra friendship, kindness, and connection around her as she grows up. The saying goes it takes a village to raise a child, and our mentors Bernie and Ben were a great addition to help unlock her potential.
Fast forward to now, they have graduated their match and we can see all of the above came true. From running around on the beach with Aria on mentor Ben’s shoulders, Aria had a big brother to make her laugh and be a male-figure in her life. Then, Rainbow’s End trips, phone calls, and girls hang outs with Bernie, Aria had a reassuring big sister in her life. In Bernie and Ben, she had friends to give her a helping hand when life felt hard, and cheerleaders to help her drive forwards.
Now a teenager, Aria reflects, “Bernie and Ben being in my life has done a lot for me, when I haven’t had a lot of people to speak to, they were there.” She also has some advice for future mentees: “Don’t be afraid to be open and be yourself, they [mentors] won’t judge you, they want to be there and support you, let loose and be yourself.”
Although graduated from BBBS Auckland, we know the connection between Aria, her mum, Bernie and Ben, will remain strong for a long time to come.
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